"One of the processes of your life is to constantly break down that inferiority, to constantly reaffirm that I Am Somebody." - Alvin Ailey

get it together...

It annoys me when I hear people say, “I’m gonna stop shopping there because everyone wears the same thing!” Well, DUH! You’re at a chain clothing store where they have at least 3 of the same garment in the same color and the same size on the same rack. And unless you have a personal designer, someone somewhere is going to have a piece of clothing that is the exact same or at least resembles yours. Not to mention, we come from a generation that idolizes celebrities, emulating their every move, trying so hard to dress like them. So of course I’m not surprised, because fashion is recycled. But it’s how you wear it that makes you distinct.

The key is originality. O-r-i-g-i-n-a-l-i-t-y. And having your own style. Your Own Style. How you choose to hook up your ‘fit is what really makes the difference. Even if you must shop at chain stores, challenge yourself to wear it differently. Make attempts not to wear the same outfit the exact same way when heading out for a night of fun. It’s hard but that’s the beauty of a challenge. Accessorize. Be fresh. Break the rules. Go all out. Shop Thrift. Try it simple (my favorite). Mix and match. Go chic. Host a swap party. Be classy. Be funky. There is no room to complain because there are so many alternatives for enhancing your personal style. You’ve got to find your niche and Own it. You deserve it!

Always remember, it’s never too late to re-invent your closet and transform your life. And when all else fails, throw on a Cardigan and whip out those Pearls! They will never steer you wrong!